Isn't fandom something that should bring you happiness? It's complicated, but that's what I came to currently. After all "a conclusion is but a shred of thought that appears when you are tired of thinking". Anyway, right now my fandom makes me happy and I sort of feel bad for all the people who are anguished by their.
After all it seems so stupid to be troubled over their problems: they are doing their dream job, they have close friends, supportive families, they are loved by millions of people and are are filthy rich. Can you boast the same? I bet not.