We fans are the loneliest people. One moment you think you're on the same boat and the next you don't know what to talk about.
Only a year ago we had this cozy little fandom and now I don't even have anyone to discuss the news. Now it's almost as if the band never existed. I'm closely following JYJ and it seems to me a logical continuation. No matter how you look at it it's still most of the band. I'm really glad to see them singing their own songs and setting their own schedules. It's obvious they suffered too, especially Jae, but they also enjoy their newfound freedom a lot. I don't really like their new songs but it's just a start.
I see people are bitter about them and it hurts me. As for HoMin I follow them loosely, but it's mostly just formal. I don't have any grudges though. This is all so ridiculous.